Where does confidence come from? Is it something you are just born with or are we able to inspire confidence over time? Yes, some individuals just appear to have it. But as someone who had it, lost it entirely, and had to build it all back from scratch, I'm going to tell you you can do some pretty amazing things with building some iron confidence in your life.
Maybe you have none in your life right now, or that you just need some more because you know how much it would aid you with making decisions. But really, where does this true confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of enduring confidence comes from the process of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of true magic. You see, when you really nail the tiny stuff, the bigger things get more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of targeting the tiny things that really set us up for great failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take a little bit of time to focus on the feasible measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can accomplish, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path to success. In fact, the quantum leap is precisely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals get discouraged when they try something gigantic in life and fail. In fact , the majority will try something 3 times and then give up without every coming back to it. But if you build some heavy momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over and over again until the day you get it 100% right.
Isn't that a far better way to live life?
Build some major momentum behind you and you are capable of wonderful things.
But first, you must sweat the really small stuff.
Maybe you have none in your life right now, or that you just need some more because you know how much it would aid you with making decisions. But really, where does this true confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of enduring confidence comes from the process of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of true magic. You see, when you really nail the tiny stuff, the bigger things get more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of targeting the tiny things that really set us up for great failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take a little bit of time to focus on the feasible measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can accomplish, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path to success. In fact, the quantum leap is precisely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals get discouraged when they try something gigantic in life and fail. In fact , the majority will try something 3 times and then give up without every coming back to it. But if you build some heavy momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over and over again until the day you get it 100% right.
Isn't that a far better way to live life?
Build some major momentum behind you and you are capable of wonderful things.
But first, you must sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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