In this day and age, people have low self-esteem because of the competition in the society. It is because people compare themselves to others. Due to these life pressures it is important to know how to forgive and love yourself every day in the challenging times. Remember we are all born with unique personality traits that no other person is endowed with on earth.
Despite life being tough and challenging at times, we will be making mistakes, and it is not right to keep revisiting the mistake without moving forward. You must purpose to do away with people who bring you down. Make the right decision to have friends who will motivate you to face life and do wonderful things. They will make life entertaining, and you will then love yourself.
Loving yourself does not necessarily imply being self-centered. Neither does it mean that you should castigate yourself if you make a mistake. It means that as much as you make decisions about yourself you ought to consider other people. We aren't perfect, but we can do things according to our ability, which other people can consider as strengths.
On your weaknesses work on them but those that are inborn it is better you accept them and laugh them off always when someone wants to use them to bring you down. Make a choice to make you happy because life is very precious, and you can only live it once.. Every person on earth is imperfect so stop listening to those who think they are perfect and better than others.
If you are a religious person, it is a good opportunity for you to seek divine intervention and read books on forgiveness. When you are depressed, find someone to confide in and at some instances cry your heart out so that you can feel better from the inside. Join groups of people who have had similar experiences because you will always encourage one another that it is possible to regain yourself one again.
It is also important to differentiate those things that are normal and those things that would come back haunting you. Study shows that most people set impossible standards for themselves and when they fail to reach targets they start feeling guilty. The guilt leads to self-incrimination, and they end up feeling and living a bad life ultimately. Make it a habit to handle others well, and the feedback you will find from others will boost your confidence and social skills.
Anytime you need to pursue a dream set long term goals and pursue them with short term strategies. If you pursue goals, blindly it is very expensive, time-consuming and discouraging. So, make a list of everything you need to do in an orderly manner and follow your dreams. Remember every person can improve and develop themselves with time.
In conclusion, if it is your morals that lead you to a state of lack of self-forgiveness and self-love; change them. Work on your morals and look for values you can adopt as an individual. It will boost your self-esteem and confidence when facing the world and do not repeat same mistakes as they will continue making you low and low.
Despite life being tough and challenging at times, we will be making mistakes, and it is not right to keep revisiting the mistake without moving forward. You must purpose to do away with people who bring you down. Make the right decision to have friends who will motivate you to face life and do wonderful things. They will make life entertaining, and you will then love yourself.
Loving yourself does not necessarily imply being self-centered. Neither does it mean that you should castigate yourself if you make a mistake. It means that as much as you make decisions about yourself you ought to consider other people. We aren't perfect, but we can do things according to our ability, which other people can consider as strengths.
On your weaknesses work on them but those that are inborn it is better you accept them and laugh them off always when someone wants to use them to bring you down. Make a choice to make you happy because life is very precious, and you can only live it once.. Every person on earth is imperfect so stop listening to those who think they are perfect and better than others.
If you are a religious person, it is a good opportunity for you to seek divine intervention and read books on forgiveness. When you are depressed, find someone to confide in and at some instances cry your heart out so that you can feel better from the inside. Join groups of people who have had similar experiences because you will always encourage one another that it is possible to regain yourself one again.
It is also important to differentiate those things that are normal and those things that would come back haunting you. Study shows that most people set impossible standards for themselves and when they fail to reach targets they start feeling guilty. The guilt leads to self-incrimination, and they end up feeling and living a bad life ultimately. Make it a habit to handle others well, and the feedback you will find from others will boost your confidence and social skills.
Anytime you need to pursue a dream set long term goals and pursue them with short term strategies. If you pursue goals, blindly it is very expensive, time-consuming and discouraging. So, make a list of everything you need to do in an orderly manner and follow your dreams. Remember every person can improve and develop themselves with time.
In conclusion, if it is your morals that lead you to a state of lack of self-forgiveness and self-love; change them. Work on your morals and look for values you can adopt as an individual. It will boost your self-esteem and confidence when facing the world and do not repeat same mistakes as they will continue making you low and low.
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